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Earlier this month, venturing into my closet in search of something else, when I pulled out a short paper I had written in graduate school about Simone de Beauvoir, I knew exactly why I had saved it.

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It was an artifact of how ridiculous and utterly abnormal I had felt still being a virgin at I translated a lack of sexual experience that was, in fact, entirely normal into an indictment of my ability to love and be loved. Beauvoir was a chic French feminist thinker who was brilliant and sexy and unapologetic about openly taking lovers and challenging ideas about women. A few months after I wrote that paper, I met the guy — another student in the program — who would become my first boyfriend, and the world of relationships and intimacy opened up to me.

Why it took so long had nothing to do with processing trauma or religious beliefs or any physical limitation. But it was. And for the longest time, I felt embarrassed — ashamed even — about the lack of dating experience that had me leaving my teen years still a virgin. There is no question, though, that a lot of teens are sexually active and that even the ones who are not active still need information and tools. At the end of the day, talking matter-of-factly about sex and bodies with young people is imperative, and I have done that with my own .

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Not everyone in their teens and 20s is having sex — for a variety of reasons. According to a report from the Guttmacher Institutean organization working to advance sexual and reproductive health and rights, 65 percent of year-olds have had sexual intercourse.

That jumps quite a bit — to 93 percent — when we get to year-olds. Another misleading characteristic of the societal conversation around virginity: its connection to religion. Yes, people who are religious may practice abstinence until marriage. And religiosity is not the only valid reason for not having sex. I wholly rejected those ideas the minute I graduated from my Catholic high school. It was not being comfortable accepting attention.

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It was not being interested much in drinking or parties or being in the kinds of social situations where people met and mingled. It was living at home during college and not coming out of my shell until I moved away for graduate school. Perhaps most problematically, I translated a lack of sexual experience that was, in fact, entirely normal into an indictment of my ability to love and be loved.

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In an educational seminar when I was 21, I was supposed to write down something I was stressed about to get some freedom from it. I published a book about honesty this year where I talked about many of the things that no one wants to talk about. For me, it looked like underestimating myself and thinking I was socially inept. Late blooms are just as beautiful as early ones.

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But they can be lonely as hell. Just know that you are never the only one. You are among many. Judi Ketteler frequently writes about self-awareness.

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